I wanted a long veil with bows down the back. One of my first fashion inspirations since I was a child was Princess Angelica from children’s novel The Rose and the Ring by William Makepeace Thackeray. On one of the first pages there is this drawing of her with ribbon bows through her hair. I used this gorgeous veiling from my favorite fabric shop in Montreal and added 9 bows made with the same polka-dot; one for each year Victor and I have been together. My mother made the veil for me and my assistant Zyryll made the bows.
My fashion school teacher and old studio neighbour Bridget Smatlan made my garter with scraps from the wedding dress. This was really great as I made her garter for her wedding many years ago. My good friend Kaneesha’s partner Dylan caught it, and is now a perfect costume piece as she is a clown and the garter makes a perfect ruff! Cute!
The Cheongsam
It was important to me to incorporate my heritage through the wedding. I designed the Cheongsam (the traditional Chinese mandarin collar dress) to have a pink scalloped corset and skirt with a red eyelash lace overlay. There is a mandarin collar and flutter sleeves for comfort. I also added long red tassels that come off my shoulders. My younger brother Judah sewed the covered buttons down the front of the dress. My good friend Beau gave me a matching red ostrich boa that we cut and pinned into my hair to complete the look.
One wish I’ve always had was to make my cheongsam and have performers in my local community gather to help me rhinestone it. A bit of a full circle moment when I’ve made costumes for them. I had a total of 16 community members over 3 weeks come in the evenings for fun chats and bonding. It took almost 70 hours of rhinestoning and 20,000 rhinestones to cover the dress. As a first-generation Canadian Chinese women, I often have a hard time connecting with my heritage. The fact that I was able to have my beautiful community be part made the process of making this traditional dress that much more important to me. Thank you Justin, Beau Creep, Drew, Stretcher Hymen, Judah, CallmeKeeks, Abigail LeVay, Vira Von Velvet, Fanny LuPhine, Jizz Elle, Onika Xtravaganza, Violette Coquette, Audra Dacity, Stella Darling, Evangeline Cachet and Zyryll ♥︎